How does divorce and separation affect children?

• About 1 in 3 children experience the divorce of their parents.
• Children's reactions to parental separation/divorce vary greatly - the child's age, sex and experiences during and after the separation/divorce influence their reaction.
• Most children do not want their parents to separate even if the family is unhappy. Many secretly believe that their parents will get back together.
• It is common for children (especially younger ones) to feel responsible for the separation/divorce.
• Children experience many of the same emotional reactions to divorce as adults, such as anger, sadness, rejection, and loneliness.
• Difficulties can arise in a number of areas, including school and peer relations. Some chidlren experience behavioral or emotional problems.
• Within a year or two, many children adjust to their parents' divorce.